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Why Am I Here?
A 15-question Motive Audit that reveals whether you are choosing freely, or being pushed by pressure, age, family, loneliness, or fear.
A DIGITAL COACHING PORTAL BY ERIC LIGHT ODAME
Who Do I Marry?
The question everyone is asking. The honest framework almost nobody gives you.
A six-module guided journey to help you choose a life partner with your eyes open — not under pressure, not out of loneliness, not because everyone is asking when. Built on the framework in the book Who Do I Marry?, reworked into a personal, interactive experience that ends with a Marital Readiness Report you can act on.
GH₵ 250Ghana individual
GH₵ 400Ghana couples
GH₵ 500Diaspora individual
GH₵ 790Diaspora couples
Founding cohort — first 30 at GH₵175
Now in founding-cohort pre-sale. The portal launches 19 October 2026. Founding buyers get the launch price, first access, and a personal welcome from Eric.
THE QUESTION
Everyone is asking who. Almost nobody asks why first.
If you are Ghanaian — whether you live in Accra, Kumasi, London, Houston or Toronto — you know the question. When are you marrying? Who is the person? Bring them home.
The aunties ask. Your mother asks. Your pastor asks. Your age mates are posting engagement photos. The pressure is real. And in that pressure, it is easy to stop asking the harder questions — the ones that actually determine whether a marriage thrives, survives, or slowly breaks.
Questions like: why am I marrying now? What am I carrying into this? Have I defined what character actually means to me? Am I reading this person clearly, or just performing courtship well? Do I have peace, or am I just tired of waiting?
This portal walks you through those questions honestly.
HOW IT WORKS
Six guided modules. One honest picture at the end.
Every module follows the same rhythm: a short audio introduction from Eric, a guided reading, an interactive exercise or quiz, and a personal reflection. Progress saves on your device. By the end you have a personal Marital Readiness Report, not a generic list of tips.
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Know Yourself First
An attachment-style indicator and pattern reflection that helps you see what you carry from your upbringing and past relationships — before you evaluate anyone else.
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The Five Non-Negotiables
A card-sort exercise that forces you to rank 20 qualities into your top 5 — replacing vague "I want a good person" with concrete, observable criteria.
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Reading the Person
A 12-item red-flag checklist and 10 realistic Ghanaian scenarios that teach you how to observe character over time, not just on date night.
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Pressure & Peace
A Pressure Meter that names the specific voices pushing you (parents, age, church, pregnancy, diaspora distance, social media) and a peace test that checks whether you are choosing freely.
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Your Verdict & Report
A personal, printable Marital Readiness Report across six dimensions, with a clear Green/Amber/Red verdict and a tailored 30-day action plan.
Your Marital Readiness ReportGenerated at the end of Module 6
Motive Health78
Self-Awareness62
Criteria Clarity84
Observed Character48
Pressure vs. Peace55
Alignment60
Verdict: Amber — proceed with intentionality. See your 30-day action plan below.
WHAT YOU WALK AWAY WITH
Not another list of tips. A clear picture of your readiness, and what to do next.
- A personal readiness score across six dimensions (motive, self-awareness, criteria, character, pressure, alignment).
- Your five non-negotiables, ranked — so vague feeling becomes concrete criteria.
- A flag for any red flags or blind spots the exercises surface (with plain explanations, not scare tactics).
- A 30-day action plan tailored to your score band — exactly what to do in the next month, not just "pray about it."
- A printable/saveable PDF you can keep, review, or share with a trusted pastor or mentor.
- A clear, dignified path to 1:1 coaching if you want to talk through what you found.
The report is yours. Your answers stay on your device unless you choose to share them. We do not sell your data. We do not read your responses.
This is for you if…
- You are single and want to clarify what you are actually looking for before you say yes to anyone.
- You are in a relationship and want to decide honestly — not just because feelings are strong or people are pushing.
- You are engaged and want a structured tool to walk through before marriage, alongside your church's premarital programme.
- You have friends or a child in decision season and you want a thoughtful gift that is more useful than another wedding envelope.
- You are in the diaspora and want a framework that understands both Ghanaian family reality and your context abroad.
- You have done the book and want the interactive, personal version.
This is not for you if…
- You want a formula that gives you a yes/no from someone else. The portal helps you decide honestly — it does not decide for you.
- You are looking for a shortcut around hard conversations with your partner, your family, or God.
- You are in crisis, experiencing abuse, or need professional mental-health support (in which case please speak to a qualified professional — the portal is not therapy).
- You are not willing to be honest with yourself. The whole journey rests on truth-telling.
CHOOSE YOUR LICENSE
One payment. Lifetime access to the portal.
No subscription. No hidden fees. Open the portal any time during your decision season. Founding cohort pricing is strictly limited to the first 30 buyers at each tier.
GHANA · INDIVIDUAL
Individual License
One person. All six modules. Your personal Marital Readiness Report. 12 months of access (re-take the portal any time during your decision season). After the founding cohort, price returns to GH₵250.
- All 6 interactive modules
- Personalised Marital Readiness Report
- Progress saves on your device
- Print/save your report as PDF
- 7-day honest-work refund
GHANA · COUPLES Most chosen
Couples License
Two individual access codes. Each person completes the portal independently, then sits down together to compare where your criteria, pressure points, and readiness scores align — and where they don't.
- Two individual access codes
- Joint comparison conversation guide
- Two personal reports
- Conversation guide for debriefing together
- Priority booking for a Decision Clarity debrief
DIASPORA
Diaspora License
For Ghanaians in the UK, US, Canada, Europe and beyond. Same portal, same report. Pay in cedis via Paystack with any international card.
- All 6 modules + personal report
- Diaspora-specific pressure module (distance, papers, family calls home)
- Pay in GHS, international cards accepted
- Access anywhere in the world
- 7-day honest-work refund
DIASPORA · COUPLES
Diaspora Couples License
Two individual access codes for couples where one or both partners are abroad. Each person completes the portal independently, then compares reports together.
- Two individual access codes
- Joint comparison conversation guide
- Two personal reports
- Pay in GHS, international cards accepted
- 7-day honest-work refund
Secure payment
Almost there.
Enter your email for your Paystack receipt. After payment your access code is issued instantly and you go straight into the portal.
Founding cohort pricing ends when the first 30 slots are filled at each tier (or on launch day, whichever comes first). After launch, prices return to GH₵250 / GH₵400 / GH₵500 / GH₵790. Payment is securely processed via Paystack (card, Mobile Money, international card). Your access code is delivered instantly after payment.
"Most people spend months investigating a partner and zero hours investigating their own motives. The pain of marrying the wrong person is always more expensive than the discomfort of pausing to decide honestly."
— Eric Light Odame, from Who Do I Marry?
BUILT ON THE BOOK
From the author of Who Do I Marry?
The Psychology of Marriage on How to Choose a Life Partner
The portal is a fully interactive companion to the book, which has helped readers across Ghana and the diaspora examine one of life's biggest decisions with greater honesty. The book is available on Amazon — the portal extends the framework into a personal journey you go through, not just read.
QUESTIONS PEOPLE ASK
Frequently asked questions.
Is this only for Christians?
It is written from a Christian-values framework that will feel natural to users in church circles — but the questions, scenarios, and principles are for any thoughtful person willing to be honest with themselves. Faith references are included as reflection, not as a requirement.
Is this only for people already in a relationship?
No. If you are single, it clarifies who you are looking for and what to look for. If you are in a relationship, it helps you evaluate honestly. If you are engaged, it helps you prepare intentionally.
How long does it take?
Each module takes about 15–25 minutes. You can finish the full journey in one evening of focused honesty, or spread it across a week. Your progress saves automatically on your device.
Can my partner and I do this together?
Yes — the couples license gives two access codes and a joint comparison view. We recommend each person does the portal individually first, then sits down together to compare reports. That is where the real conversations begin.
What about refunds?
If you complete Module 1, show your work, and decide it is not for you within 7 days, we will refund you in full. Honest work deserves a dignified out.
Is this the same as the book?
No. The book is a teaching resource. The portal is a guided, interactive journey through the framework — with quizzes, personalised scoring, scenarios, and a Marital Readiness Report at the end. You do not need the book to benefit from the portal, and the portal is not just the book online.
Is this a replacement for premarital counselling or therapy?
No. This is a self-reflection tool — honest, practical, structured. It does not replace pastoral premarital counselling, professional therapy, or face-to-face coaching. In fact, the report is designed to be shared with your pastor or mentor as a conversation starter. If the portal flags that you should speak to someone, that is a recommendation worth taking.
Do you have a diaspora price?
Yes. For Ghanaians in the UK, US, Canada, Europe and elsewhere, the portal is GH₵500 (individual) / GH₵790 (couples), payable in cedis via Paystack with international cards — your bank handles the conversion.
Still have a question? Ask Eric on WhatsApp
AFTER THE PORTAL
Want to talk through your report one-on-one?
After you finish the portal, you can book a 60-minute Decision Clarity Session with Eric to walk through your Marital Readiness Report, ask the questions the portal raised, and decide on your next step. Sessions are available in person in Accra or via voice/video call.
Decision Clarity SessionGH₵ 40060 minutes · one-on-one
LET’S TAKE THE NEXT STEP
Stop guessing. Start choosing with clarity.
The first 30 founding buyers get the portal at GH₵175 (Ghana) / GH₵350 (diaspora). After that, the price returns to full. The portal launches 19 October 2026 — your access code is delivered instantly after payment, and Module 1 is ready the moment you log in.
Important: This portal is a guided self-reflection tool based on the framework in Who Do I Marry? by Eric Light Odame. It is not therapy, psychiatric care, professional counselling, legal advice, or medical advice. It does not replace pastoral guidance, mental-health care, or face-to-face premarital counselling. If you are in crisis, experiencing abuse, or have a mental-health concern, please contact a qualified professional or a trusted emergency service.